Clear head

Everyone has the problem when sometimes feel very bad. No matter why.
For many years when I feel my head is full of informations, my soul is upside-down and could not decide what to do, how to think I use this technique to clear my head:
All of us have places in the house where are things what we not use often. I like to organize these things. While I am tidying up these places, I have chance to relax as well. But there are more advantages of organizing:
1. I usually find tools what I have been searching for months or for years.
2. I usually find relics what bring back my memories.
This time I found this relic :-) I had made it fifteen years ago. I had to renew this kind of art because it felt to pieces. I know this swan is not as nice as my friend's works nowadays but those years it was a big challenge to prepare a swan without tutorials what we have on youtube now. I just tried to copy what I saw at one of my friend.
With Love, 
Anikó

Tree hugging

Usually go out with children and if find a nice tree we hug that.
Hugging a tree gives you energy. Try it!

When you hug the tree you will feel as your heart chakra starts to warm up, starts to rotate in it's normal speed. Wonderful feeling.

In this way you give energy to the tree as well. And of course to the Earth :-)
My son loves the leaves too )))))))

And if you wish to relax, meditate or syntonize your chakras just lay down on the field (or in the garden) and let your body to be together with mother Earth! If possible don't use blanket!

Son - Mother conversation

Conversation with my 8 years old son:
-What are you doing Mom?
-I'm writing.
-What are you writing about?
-I write my thoughts.
-Why do you write those?
-Because it helps me to understand to summarize world around us.
-And what are you writing about now?
-How important to feel world around us, to enjoy world around us, not just see, but live in present.
-You know Mom nothing is good if I can't share what happens to me...

Inside peace

Many years ago a friend of mine gave me a picture. Although the quality of the picture not the best but means a lot to me! I've got a copy in my purse. Everytime when I look at the picture I feel the deepest peace and safety! I can feel as energy is going through my body upside down and staying in my heart at the end :-) 

 

Relationship - About Marriage

Everybody has marriage problems. Not because we are not able to live in normal relationship. We choose relationship in what we could grow the biggest. Nowadays one of the biggest problem in marriages that not see on parner as a sovereign person, AND not see herself and himself as a sovereign person as well. Love is not have the partner and let him/her to has us! Because we are not loveable none of these case. We love and we are lovable only when have sovereignty. It means everybody has to live her/his life as completely as she/he can without partner. In this manner we are able to look at the partner as he/she is, and relationship could be pleasure not pressure! :-)

With love
Anikó

Cooking with children

Children really love to do everything with us. There is no child who does not love to be with us whatever we are doing at the moment. For example in the kitchen :-)
I know that is not simple to cook with a child. But we could give him/her bit roles (not only in the kitchen). Children love roles! :-) Especially when we praise them. 
Give them a chair, and some task. For examlpe measure some ingredients, or mix something, later we could give them obtuse knife to slice the carrot or something :-) What is the most important: TRUST them! They are so skillfull if we trust them. My children never hurt themself although they "help" :-) me in the kitchen from the age 2. Of course we have to pay attention! But later they are able to do everything "alone" as well. AND cooking with a teenager is very funny and full of happiness. They have their own opinion and ideas. What well proves they are going to be independent, have more and more skills for life.
Why is it good to involve children into cooking?
1. They are not bored while we are cooking. (And Mom will be happy)
2. They have better appetite :-)
3. They will love cooking.
4. People who love cooking have more control on their life.
5. If we cooked with children they would trust us more, and would accept all of our advice in many areas of their life :-)
6. Eat the meal what we cooked together increases the coherence :-)
So cooking with children is very useful activity to look on the future as well.
With love 
Anikó
                           

   

About LOVEMAKING

Nowadays sexuality is in spotlight more than ever. Why? Is there more sexual need? No, I think no.
I think there is more need for real lovemaking. Because sexuality degraded only to have orgasm/cum.
Why? To feel, to make real love requires the PASSION. Without passion there is no real lovemaking.
How to feel passion? Passion is from desire to love someone and to be loved by someone. BUT passion comes only when you give all of your being into the moment. When you allow to feel every touch and movement. When you really enjoy to touch, kiss your partner, and when you become more excited to feel your partner's enjoyment. 
A real lovemaking starts with this feeling. 

What to cook?

Every housewife, mother has this problem: What to cook???
The problem is not we don't know much recipes. The problem is the idea :-)
A few years ago I decided don't want this dilemma every day. So I strated to collect our favourite meals into groups: favourite breakfast, salads, drinks, main dishes, soups, daugter favourite meals, son's, father's, and of course mother's :-), and so on.. I made lists for those.
A few days ago I started to write the dishes names to cards one by one. I've made an organizer for cards, diveded them into their groups. And I've not finished yet :-)
Since I've made my list I have no dilemma: What to cook? :-) Since I've made the organizer I love to choose :-)
Here is my organizer with little bit decoration on cards :-) I recommend this system for everyone!
The advantage of this system, you can add cards when there is a new recipe.
Good luck! :-) I would love to get pictures if someone made own organizer!!! 

How to find love?

You can't find love if you are seeking. Love finds you if you love yourself. Love comes when you can respect yourself, that's why you are able to respect your partner. Love comes when you are really ready to love and to be loved. Love comes not earlier and not later. Love comes in time :-)

Independence

The main cause of sadness in a relationship is lack of independence.
Everybody likes to belong to somebody. Things are going to turn wrong when there is nothing else only him/her. It's a normal feeling longing always to the partner especially in the very first times.
BUT after a while the responsibility could be very depressing for partner. That's why relationship ends before it could begin. Or keeps going on, but the couple are just like zombie or vampire: UNDEAD or BLOODSUCKER :-)
How to pay attention relationship?
There is only one way: Keep on being a little bit independent! All the times! Except in passion moments :-)
Everybody is loveable and more attractive keeping 1-2 steps distance. Beware of those who doesn't have any kind of pleasure but YOU! AND beware not founding someone on. It could be drag on her/him what he/she soon wants to get off....
So, both of two people's behaviour will specify the quality of the relationship and the happyness. One's behaviour has an influence to the other's and inverse. 
It is not good thinking or speaking about sadness if relationship is going to die. But feel the responsibility, and keeping little distance (not exactly in space, but in mind) could help resolve that. In the first time partner could react not so nice, but later everything will be better. If not, maybe it is not worth to invest more energy.
Of course the best way to enter and continue the relationship as an individual keeping independence and let the partner to be independent as well. 
Good luck! :-)

Overweight

Overweight is not because of eating much. Overweight is because of being unhappy. There are a lot of people who eat not much, do sports and they are still crummy. Why?

If someone happy, there are much good thoughts what keep the body and the mind moving without doing anything. Brain processes and the feelings what are flowing through the body use much energy.