Everybody likes to belong to somebody. Things are going to turn wrong when there is nothing else only him/her. It's a normal feeling longing always to the partner especially in the very first times.
BUT after a while the responsibility could be very depressing for partner. That's why relationship ends before it could begin. Or keeps going on, but the couple are just like zombie or vampire: UNDEAD or BLOODSUCKER :-)
How to pay attention relationship?
There is only one way: Keep on being a little bit independent! All the times! Except in passion moments :-)
Everybody is loveable and more attractive keeping 1-2 steps distance. Beware of those who doesn't have any kind of pleasure but YOU! AND beware not founding someone on. It could be drag on her/him what he/she soon wants to get off....
So, both of two people's behaviour will specify the quality of the relationship and the happyness. One's behaviour has an influence to the other's and inverse.
It is not good thinking or speaking about sadness if relationship is going to die. But feel the responsibility, and keeping little distance (not exactly in space, but in mind) could help resolve that. In the first time partner could react not so nice, but later everything will be better. If not, maybe it is not worth to invest more energy.
Of course the best way to enter and continue the relationship as an individual keeping independence and let the partner to be independent as well.
Good luck! :-)
Nincsenek megjegyzések:
Megjegyzés küldése